I’ve been listening to a discussion on ClubHouse on how to deal with haters. There were lots of comments like “ignore them; it’s just their stuff, they’re just jealous” etc etc. To me the point that was missed is this:

There’s no such thing as ‘a hater’.

There are just people giving expression to their particular values.

What they think and feel has one hundred percent NOTHING to do with you.

However, your reaction to what they say has EVERYTHING to you.

Here’s the beautiful part …..your reaction is you giving yourself feedback on your own unresolved insecurities, judgments or unrealistic expectations. These charges, when integrated, will propel you to your next quantum level of awareness and success.