Every client I consult with is striving for freedom: freedom to go after what they want; freedom to love who they want; freedom to ask for what they need; freedom from guilt or shame; freedom from resentment or blame; freedom from a relationship; freedom from a physical ailment; freedom to stop doing what no longer enlivens them; freedom from being the person that everyone …including themselves … expects them to be.

My clients are psychologically sophisticated men and women, most of whom are entering (or deeply embroiled in) the unsettling, liminal phase of existence: Mid-Life.

Despite having beautiful lives of outer success, many feel a niggling, inner dissatisfaction, wondering “Is this it?” That is often accompanied by guilt for not being more grateful for all that they have. They wonder what’s wrong with them that they just don’t, or can’t, feel happy with the things that used to make them feel successful and purposeful. They want to feel fulfilled and grounded and good about themselves and their lives, but underneath the lovely exterior, they just don’t. It weighs on them. Sometimes their health is suffering. Almost always a relationship is taking strain.

They are in the in-between, liminal space between declining and emerging value systems. The old values, or priorities, no longer feel enlivening and inspiring; but the new hierarchy of values is not yet clear. For many it’s a confusing time of dissatisfaction and frustration, with no clear cause or cure.

What they want is to make sense of what’s happening to them.

What they need is a way to break the addiction to being who they’ve always been … to become who they are being called to be.

Freedom to be fully themselves is the call they are answering.

I am not here to fit in.

I am here to awaken.
To strip away the illusions. To challenge the narratives.
To remember what I already know deep in my bones:
That freedom is my birthright,
and truth is my compass.

I believe the world is not healed by performance, but by presence.

Not by domination, but by listening.
Not through obedience to corrupted systems,
but through devotion to something wiser, deeper, and real.

I believe that sovereignty is not selfish.

It is sacred.
To know oneself is the beginning of all healing.
To govern oneself is the start of all true leadership.

To Love oneself is greatest gift to one’s relationships

I reject the lie that we are born broken.

We are born whole, not in sin, but in forgetting.

I am here to remember.

I walk the path of GRACE

Not as a passive kindness,
but as a fierce, intelligent force
that restores, reconnects, and reclaims.

Grace is not weakness.

Grace is the refusal to dehumanize—even in the face of madness.
It is radical, relational wisdom in a time of division.

I speak to those who feel the call.

The quiet leaders.
The spiritual warriors.
The ones disillusioned by systems,
but not yet disillusioned by the soul.

You know who you are.
You feel it in your chest.
In the still moments.
In the ache for something more real.

You are not alone.
We are gathering.

Not to fight—but to remember.
Not to conform—but to create.

A new story.
A new society.
Rooted in self-mastery, sacred commerce, and wise leadership.

“Jolina is an oracle of sorts. She is a healer, not of brokenness but from an optimization standpoint….healing so that you’re equipped to be fully you.” Dr David Martin

For the past 30 years or so, Jolina has been guiding clients to greater levels of Self-awareness and personal integration, in order to heal themselves and and their relationships. She has led workshops and retreats on three continents to empower participants with a unique, values-driven understanding of human behavior and self-actualization. Now, more than ever, she believes it is imperative that as many of us as possible do the work of becoming whole. Our freedom and well-being depend on it.

Jolina holds certifications in Psychology, Sociology, various somatic therapies, Behavioral Kinesiology and The Demartini Method™. Her insights and wisdom are born of a lifelong fascination with human behavior, relationships, healing and the natural world.

The Backstory

Raised by a spiritual healer mother and a nuclear physicist father, Jolina’ knew her’s life has been about bringing science and spirituality together in order to make sense of the human experience, especially as it pertains to healing.

At fourteen, she read Carl Jung’s autobiography, and was inspired by his idea that we cannot affect true healing until we reach the soul. This ignited in Jolina four burning questions that informed the next few decades of her life: “What is the soul? How do we reach it? Why does this matter? And, how can I explain all this to dad?”

It was the search for answers to those questions that made Jolina leave her homeland South Africa in 1989. She says: “a little voice told me to ‘go find the thing you’re supposed to find and bring it back”. What she thought would take two years instead took fifteen.

In those fifteen years Jolina traveled on four continents, sailed across the Atlantic twice, became a professional sailor and chef, swam with dolphins, got married and divorced, started businesses, made a few documentaries and, most importantly, met a myriad of healers from whom she learned many things ….. telekinesis, plant spirit medicine, energy balancing, soul retrieval, somatic therapies, behavioral kinesiology and more. Then, in 2003, Jolina stumbled across the work of Dr Demartini.

His way of weaving together physics, physiology, cosmology and philosophy finally provided the understanding of human behavior and healing that she had been seeking.

Jolina is a teacher at heart. Grasping high level concepts and stepping them down in ways that others can grasp, is very high value to her. When you work with her you don’t get just some coaching tips or psychological insights, you get an education that is absolutely guaranteed to revolutionize the way you look at things.

Jolina knows that until we change the very lens through which we see and judge everything, nothing really changes. She is committed to teaching clients the principles of a new, more integrating and authentically liberating paradigm, much of which flies in the face of pop psychology and modern theology. It is a challenging path to take that requires a willingness to really look at oneself, own ALL that one sees, and integrate it through a high-level inquiry in functional-analysis. While this is guaranteed to shatter egos and crash identities, it is also guaranteed to liberate a far more refined and inspired, Self-knowing and Self-loving YOU.

jolina @ jolinakaren.com

P O Box 212, Frisco, CO 80443